Failing itself is just another perspective and if anyone tells you, you failed in any matter they can only tell you so from their perspective but never from your own. It does not matter how it looks to others, all it matters is how it looks to you.
The only time you truly failed is when you believe the perspective of others. That moment you deny your own perspective which is based on what your soul truly aspires.
If you do not let other people tell you what perspective to have and therefore let other people try to make something out of you that you are not but instead you stay true to your own perspective and yourself, you are truly free. You can then do WHATEVER you want. Whatever you truly want to do.
It is your life and if loosing in your perspective is a failure it is. If not it is not. But do not let other people tell you what perspective to have. Make up your own.
The truth is that you are free, completely free to choose your perspective and to choose what you believe or if you want to believe anyone or anything else than what your heart and soul tells you. Your soul never lies, it cannot.
There’s a famous saying:â€Why do we fall? To learn to get up again.â€ The Answer to that question is perspective as well and you, and you only, are the one who chooses your own answer to that question.
Even time is perspective and it is relative and really only part of your mind. Einstein once said something like the following about time.
Time runs way to fast when you sit with your girlfriend on the beach enjoying the sunset. 1 hour feels like 5 minutes. However when you sit alone at the train station waiting for your train, 5 Minutes easily feel like 1 hour.